Monday, June 10, 2013

Native Wedding: a time to celebrate!

 I thought in today's blog that I'd give you a glimpse into Navajo life on the Reservation, and what the life of a missionary looks like sometimes. . . 

We went to a wedding last night for two dear, Navajo friends. We've known both Gina and Gary for many years now and met them both at Community Bible Church which meets here at the mission.  The first time we met Gary he told us that he had been involved in a LDS church program called "placement." Placement happened in the 1970's and '80s as a program that allowed Native children to live with a LDS family during the school year, and get a good education off the reservation. Many, many Navajo children were in this program. Some of them had good experiences, others not so good. Gary's experience was generally good, but after he had grown up, he realized that the gospel he'd been taught in the LDS church was not biblical doctrine.  He has one sister still involved in the LDS church.
The grooms mother, sister, and relatives

 Gina is the lady whose son, Michael was in our house this school year doing his school work alongside my children. We've come to care very much for Gina and Michael and were excited for both of them when Gina and Gary got engaged. Gina was also in LDS placement growing up and also left that upbringing and came to know the biblical Jesus Christ. She and Gary are both passionate about their relationships to God, and they hope to do ministry together in their new life.
Garret and Gina. Nelson Betony, one of the staff men we work with, was one of Gary's best men.

Waiting for the bride to come. . . we waited and waited, and waited. 
In true Navajo fashion the wedding started about an hour late, and during the wait we all sat in the hot sun. Luckily for us there were a couple of elm trees and Steve and I found a good seat in the shade. Gina and Gary got married on his family land where they plan to build a house. The background for their wedding is a cabin that Gary's grandfather built by hand many years ago. Gary lived in this very small, one bedroom cabin until he was a teen.
Introducing. . . .Mr and Mrs. Wauneka
As missionaries one of our favorite things is "doing life with" native Christians. It was truly an honor and blessing to be part of Gina and Gary's wedding, and share this event with them.